Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?

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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  28 days ago +1312

    Hey everyone - thanks so much for watching this amazing conversation. Thank you to SK-II for making this episode possible! If you enjoyed this piece, be sure to check out SK-II's amazing docu-series #Timelines with Katie Couric ( that addresses pressures women face all around the world. Love you all - thanks for watching and supporting!

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      nala beans 14 days ago

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    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 20 days ago

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    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 20 days ago

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    • Brooklynite C
      Brooklynite C 21 day ago

      I completely understand if a woman doesn't want to have children. Not everyone wants that lifestyle. But to get your tubes tied?? It makes absolutely no sense to me. There are so many forms of birth control! Getting your tubes tied should be done to prevent fatalities. Not for pure leisure and convenience. Use condoms or the pill, or the patch, or the ring etc. I'll never understand why a woman would want to shut her body down permanently.

    • Flyer
      Flyer 22 days ago

      15:00 ... wtf "Get your money", golder digger mentality, how is she entitled to taking some of the paycheck, he works to pay for the food, gas, car, insurance, and house. Smh it doesn't take a 16 hour day to keep a house clean and cook, she can get a job as well, or live free and content.
      My guess is she just said "that might change" because of all the feminist pure pressure in the room.

  • Rosa Sutter
    Rosa Sutter 5 hours ago

    this was very good, and im glad you have sk-11 sponsor very good and respectable brand

  • Macy Thomas
    Macy Thomas 6 hours ago

    I agree with everything the lady in pink said.

  • Angela Kelley
    Angela Kelley 9 hours ago


  • Alli Swatsenbarg
    Alli Swatsenbarg 9 hours ago

    I think having your tubes tied is less impactful than having a kid. You can adopt, but if you keep a child you can't abandon it

  • Haley Obremski
    Haley Obremski 10 hours ago

    You can become a parent without producing a child with your own body

  • Kenzie M
    Kenzie M 12 hours ago

    "what do you know at 25?" EXCUSE ME. you all literally got married or had children by 25. Why is 25 a good age to decide to have kids, but 25 isn't a good age to decide you DONT want kids????????? Y'all becoming a grandparent isn't the most important thing. and you have other children who could possibly have kids, chill

  • Something Edgy
    Something Edgy 12 hours ago

    I've met too many elderly patients who haven't had kids, their spouse has died and they're allllllllllll alone in their houses, noone would know if they died. no thanks x

  • aattoo hassan
    aattoo hassan 13 hours ago

    you cant force someone to go on a tradition route but you should educate your children why and how things were done back in the day. Men AND Women!

  • Its Geneva
    Its Geneva 13 hours ago

    15:08-15:15 I LOVE!!

  • M CJ
    M CJ 14 hours ago

    A part of this discussion is really....disappointing. So much "carrying and bring life is so important/special." As a woman with PCOS I can't help thinking of all the people who so desperately want to do this but cannot. Is their life or their life/love less important/special? I think about those who chose to adopt. Is their life/love less important/special because they didn't BIRTH their children? There are so many ways to be a mother/parent that does not involve birthing another human from your body

  • Elena Williams
    Elena Williams 15 hours ago

    I never wanted children and got pregnant at 30. It shocked me just how much I loved and still love being a Mum. It's so individual, we can't choose or judge other women for their choices. I definitely copped a heap of flack for not wanting children beforehand. Individual choices should be supported.

  • Homestuck TV
    Homestuck TV 15 hours ago +1

    Wtf happened to flat earthers vs scientists?

  • Cr8if1
    Cr8if1 15 hours ago

    Coming from a small town, the normal thing here is to get married and have kids before 25. You have people scrutinizing you under a microscope if you’re not following the crowd, asking you: when you’re getting married, why aren’t you dating, do you even want kids? It’s funny how you get judged for being single with no kids at 25.

  • Scotty Zepplin
    Scotty Zepplin 15 hours ago

    The history of marriage demeans women but has been twisted into romantisicm. One should be able to pick wether or not they want to spend their life with someone not because it is a requirement but because they choose to.

  • m grace
    m grace 17 hours ago

    Annemarie!!! Sweet sweet woman!!💕💕💕

  • WhySoLOL
    WhySoLOL 19 hours ago

    Cassandra from Origins? coo coo

  • sarah
    sarah Day ago

    Afrika's mom keeps making jokes and everyone but her daughter laughs lmao

  • Jemimah
    Jemimah Day ago

    When the white mum said to experience having a child i was like nooooo

  • Mr. Negative The Negative Man

    So women can have goals they just can't include men? Got it

  • Greg S./ aka: The so called angry black man

    The daughters sound like typical modern-day females who will waste their youth going from guy to guy while they find themselves or further their career and by the time their ready for a family their post wall with or without kids and no man is going to want them other than for sex.
    You know a stick of gum when you first start chewing it, it's soft and full of flavor, females today want to wait till their chewed up and all the flavors gone then want to try to tell a man what he must have and must do to get with her........hmmmm baby girl your vagina has over 100,000 miles on it, you're not going to dictate or demand anything from me. There are plenty of simps out there that would be ecstatic to be one of the many guys that have been with you.

  • Beautifully Kayla

    Can we just talk about how pretty Cassandra is

  • Greg S./ aka: The so called angry black man

    Marriage doesn't benefit men so why go into a one way contract.

  • Luna Moon
    Luna Moon Day ago

    I think people really need to start caring for others instead of saying family is everything. I can't have children, that's not my choice I was born that way. Blood does not mean family, love means family. You don't have to be related to be family.

  • Delilah Faith
    Delilah Faith Day ago

    This video made me ball my eyes out. Thank you so much for making it.

  • Claudia Rodriguez

    That white lady needs some help, we aren’t just incubators

  • Laila Somani
    Laila Somani Day ago

    I was crying omg this video was so sweet and inspiring

  • Izzy Peters
    Izzy Peters Day ago +1

    God Annemarie should stop trying to tell Afrika how to feel about being a woman with the whole tube tying situation

  • Speed _
    Speed _ Day ago +1

    “What do you know at 25?”
    -*gets married at 23*

  • Speed _
    Speed _ Day ago +2

    Lol afrika’s mom has Africa earrings.

  • justme cjb
    justme cjb Day ago

    this episode is so emotional

  • Paige
    Paige Day ago

    Annemarie is annoying. That's all.

  • Jose Carbajal
    Jose Carbajal Day ago +7

    No one:
    Afrika's mom: PERIODT

  • Freeda AK
    Freeda AK Day ago

    It's ok to get your tubes tied. The reason people are so skeptical is because of the typical maternal instinct that kicks in around your late 20s, early 30s that may make you want to start a family🤷🏾‍♀️.
    That's why people advise against it

  • CGC4JereZion
    CGC4JereZion Day ago

    I love them all it was such a warm, loving and wholesome conversation 🥺

  • Grace Rogers
    Grace Rogers Day ago +1

    These moms over here like "what if when your 40 you want kids?" Like adoption isn't a thing🙄🙄you can have kids and still get your tubes tied sis.

  • Orange Juice
    Orange Juice Day ago

    that white mom honestly annoyed me and i dunno why.

  • James Waye
    James Waye Day ago

    Can we do "pro-marijuana vs anti-marijuana"

    AIMAN HUSSAIN Day ago +1

    If your mom was like u guys...u guys probably not talking here... lmao 😆


    i wanna be the pink sweater lady's friend. :(

  • Garrett Spillane

    Notice the pink sweater lady huh Africa’s mom in the background at 9:06 when Africa was talking about how she got her tubes tied

  • sandraaaolsson
    sandraaaolsson Day ago

    ”You Need to try that experience at least once”
    That’s sick?! It’s the rest of your life, first of all 18 years, until the kid becomes an adult. But you still have a child and you still love it.
    Just cuz u dont want a baby, does not make u a monster. If you got a baby you would love it as much as any other mum.
    And i want kids, i just se the daughters perspecrives

  • ll RXNZLO ll
    ll RXNZLO ll 2 days ago

    Her name is Africa she must of gotten bullied

  • Kalani W
    Kalani W 2 days ago

    NO! Just because they don’t want kids now doesn’t mean they will ‘change their mind’ later. I hate that people think that, I’ve had friends say that to me many times. Even family have said stuff like that to me. I’m just not having a future with kids.


    i love the way the asian mom looks at her daughter as she walks into the circle every damn time lmaoooo

  • starzzzy
    starzzzy 2 days ago

    No one should be pressured into marriage or kids. Those are serious life decisions and you need to be sure and ready.

  • 말로우마쉬
    말로우마쉬 2 days ago

    i hate how condescending the moms are with how they kept giggling whenever the daughters went forward for the questions.

  • Naomi Salazar
    Naomi Salazar 2 days ago +1

    it's weird because some of these moms view children as something that can help them in the future. You old and sick? You kids gonna care for you! They also need to understand that not everyone likes or wants kids, like you can't force someone to like or unlike a certain sport, singer, whatever... so weird

  • Urvashi Pathak
    Urvashi Pathak 2 days ago

    Im going to be 27 and I'm happy my parents do not pressure me for marriage and they want me to be financially stable first but unfortunately I won't be able to select my own spouse, due to cultural norms my parents will find me a husband.

  • SomethingNewAMBW
    SomethingNewAMBW 2 days ago

    I'm going to assume she's Chinese, that thought that she REALLY needs a husband is something I've seen and heard from so many here in Beijing, otherwise a lot of times they're thought to be "leftovers".

  • mashedpotatohead00
    mashedpotatohead00 2 days ago

    Afrika at 9:56 SENT me, that was just the PERFECT facial expression for that moment

  • Meg Murphy
    Meg Murphy 2 days ago

    My mom had the problem where she was married for 25 years then go divorced so she was shocked about doing the finances, you need to be able to do things for yourself

  • Kat Spratt
    Kat Spratt 2 days ago +6

    Can we just appreciate how supportive Afrika's mom was when she knew her daughter wanted to tie her tubes

  • MissyLillie
    MissyLillie 2 days ago

    It’s an asian thing. Imagine if you have no one to take care of you!! I refuse to put my mother in a home or hire help to take care of my mother.

  • Oceane Yao
    Oceane Yao 2 days ago

    This episode is soooo sweeeet 🥰🥰🥰

  • jade de rat
    jade de rat 2 days ago

    her husband has not cooked in 28 years!!!!

  • idc.idc.idc.
    idc.idc.idc. 2 days ago

    This episode was so...wholesome and beautiful 🥺

  • Marcos Ruiz Diaz
    Marcos Ruiz Diaz 2 days ago +2

    And that's how America will become a Latino nation

  • tracy ash
    tracy ash 2 days ago

    I am 30 have no kids and not married. I am just living life. I am never getting married. the only thing marriage is a piece of paper. you can still love someone and not be married. it's just my

  • em me
    em me 2 days ago

    Men too, not just women ppl expect a man to live a certain way.